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What even happens at sex parties??
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The not so secret world of sex clubs and parties can be quite intimidating to the average Joe, and our fears over what happens in there can stop us entering into and enjoying this world. So for the nervous and curious I’ve…
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Sub? Dom? Brat? Switch? What are all these roles in kink and where do you fit into them?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Are you a sub, Dom, Switch, Brat? If you’ve been following me a while or had any kind of introduction to kink, I’m sure you’ve heard some of these terms thrown around. If you’re wondering what all these roles are and if/where…
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How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Have a threesome? Be more kinky? Go to a sex party? Do anal? Have more sex? Consider non-monogamy? The age old question. You have a desire you want your partner to engage in and you don’t know how to get them to…
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Talk Dirty To Me: How sex can be transformed through words
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The mind is powerful and so too are words. Through language we can be transported to an entirely different world and studies show that so called ‘dirty talking’ can not only enhance sexual experiences but can be as powerful as physical stimulation…
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The Truth.. A Fawn in a pit of Lions
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! After my first remembered experience of SA I tried to make that person fall in love with me for months. Read that again. I’m scared to share this, petrified even, given the response most women experience when sharing any experience of sexual…
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Ethical Non-Monogamy; Redefining the boundaries of Love and Relationships
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Ethical non monogamy or ENM appears to be a hot topic currently. With increasing coverage of the various forms and a strong devision of public opinion I thought it time to provide some information and answer the burning questions surrounding ENM; what…
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2023; The chrysalis year of pain and success
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! As 2023 comes to an end reflection feels natural as it does for so many of us this time of year. Even more so given my birthday is the 30th December, born and aged just before a new beginning. What so many…
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What Even is good Sex?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So many sex ‘experts’, courses, books and more offer the path to ‘mind blowing sex’. As a sex educator and person who is seen with a level of responsibility in the field, I have read countless books, watched countless shows and essentially…
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Backdoor Pleasure; the ins and outs of anal
‘he pulled out to go back in the front and we were both covered in poo’- the statement I saw on a mum forum that immediately inspired this blog post. Sometimes as a sex educator it can feel like im teaching people to suck eggs, that people might be frustrated by what might be deemed…
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Embracing Your Body: You are Worthy
I remember the days of turning off the lights, avoiding being naked in front of loved ones, and holding back because of self-consciousness about my body. In this post, I share the key changes that boosted my self-esteem, improved body confidence, and ultimately transformed my life for the better. Over the last few years I…