Welcome to Better Sex Blog — a shame-free, pleasure-positive space where you’ll find real sex education, conscious kink exploration, and tools to build a life full of authentic connection.
I’m Alice Lovegood — sex educator, conscious kink practitioner, adult content creator, and founder of Better Sex Blog.
I’m here to help you build the sex life, relationships, and self-connection you’ve always wanted — without shame, stigma, or guesswork.
With over ten years of experience in health and social care, a background in midwifery, and now the UK’s most-followed sex educator (hi, 700k+ of you!). I’ve made it my mission to give people the education, support and community to make informed decisions that empower them to live an authentic, conscious and pleasurable life.
👉 Want a place to start? Try my most read; ‘Backdoor Pleasure, the Ins and Outs of anal’ or ‘What Even Happens at Sex Parties?’ or browse the full archive here.
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Why I Do This Work
After a few years in the adult industry, I noticed something alarming: people were turning to adult content for education. And they weren’t getting it. Instead, they were being fed misinformation, unsafe practices, and unrealistic expectations.
That’s when I decided to do something about it.
I trained as a certified sex educator and began opening up vulnerable, taboo-smashing conversations about sex and desire, kink, non-monogamy, neurodivergence, trauma, and pleasure. This work changed everything — in my relationships, my parenting, my identity, and my ability to live in alignment with what I truly desire.
Now, I teach others how to do the same.
Who I Am (Besides All That)
- I’m queer, polyamorous with multiple partners, and very kinky
- I’m neurodivergent and proud and live with bipolar, CPTSD and addiction recovery.
- I’m a wife, a mother of three, and a multi-hyphenate business owner
- I love to read, write poetry, hunt for the best pastries and build lego.
- And I’m always learning — I don’t pretend to know everything, but I show up with radical honesty and real experience
Whether you’re here to unlearn shame, explore kink, get better at oral, feel more confident in your body, or navigate open relationships — you’re in the right place.
What I create:
- The Better Sex Blog — Sex education that’s inclusive, trauma-aware, and actually useful.
- Bound to Meet — My one-of-a-kind connection event for the kinky, curious, and conscious.
- Courses, Workshops + Workbooks — Practical tools and resources to help you live with more pleasure.
- Merch
- Socials + Adult Content — Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, X, and my Adult Platforms for daily sex-positive visibility
- Brand Collaborations, affiliates and recommended products/ Resources; See My Recommendations. Want to Work with me? Get in touch HERE.
- Personal Coaching for individuals and couples
Coming soon; keep your eyes peeled for my in the works project releases! Games, products and an ultimate kink retreat! Sign up to my Newsletter to be the first to hear!