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2023; The chrysalis year of pain and success
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! As 2023 comes to an end reflection feels natural as it does for so many of us this time of year. Even more so given my birthday is the 30th December, born and aged just before a new beginning. What so many…
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What Even is good Sex?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So many sex ‘experts’, courses, books and more offer the path to ‘mind blowing sex’. As a sex educator and person who is seen with a level of responsibility in the field, I have read countless books, watched countless shows and essentially…
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Backdoor Pleasure; the ins and outs of anal
‘he pulled out to go back in the front and we were both covered in poo’- the statement I saw on a mum forum that immediately inspired this blog post. Sometimes as a sex educator it can feel like im teaching people to suck eggs, that people might be frustrated by what might be deemed…
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Embracing Your Body: You are Worthy
I remember the days of turning off the lights, avoiding being naked in front of loved ones, and holding back because of self-consciousness about my body. In this post, I share the key changes that boosted my self-esteem, improved body confidence, and ultimately transformed my life for the better. Over the last few years I…
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Sexual Health in Crisis
I asked 1700 people about their sexual health habits and the results were shocking! This week marks World Sexual Health Week, and with sexually transmitted infections (STIs) rising by 24% in the UK, I decided to explore public awareness around sexual health. In this post, I share insights from asking the general public about their…
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Impact Play
The beautiful art of consensual impact play, where the thrill of giving or receiving can be incredibly exciting and stimulating. Impact play adds a new level of intensity, whether as part of a scene, discipline, or simply spicing up your intimate life. In this blog, we’ll explore why people choose to engage in impact play,…
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Adding a Unicorn; Our first experience of a three-way
According to the largest study on sexual fantasies by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, more than 95% of people have fantasized about group play or threesomes. Last week, my partner of 9 years and I had the chance to live out this fantasy on film for everyone to enjoy. In this blog, I’ll share my thoughts, feelings,…
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The Benefits of Orgasm
In honour of National Orgasm Day, I wanted to explore the incredible benefits of orgasms. If you need a little extra motivation to treat yourself to some self-pleasure or if you’re battling any doubts about enjoying a solo play session today, this post is for you. Discover why orgasms are not just pleasurable but also…
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How do I find like minded kinky people?
So, you’ve been following my content and realized, ‘Wow, I might be kinky!’ Or as my little community affectionately calls it, a ‘Roman’ (thanks to an auto-caption mishap with the word ‘wrong’en’—and now it’s a thing). Welcome, fellow kink enthusiast! We’re about to dive into a world of fun and exploration. Whether you’re new to…
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The Issue with not teaching sex for pleasure
At the weekend I interviewed the public on the topic of Sex education. It was enlightening to say the least, and so fun. I’m appreciative of everyone that spoke to me and will definitely be doing it again. Reflecting on the conversations I had I came to the realisation that I believe the single biggest…
