Tag: kink
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How to Be Dominant in Bed: Finding My Femdom Confidence After Being Taught to Submit
Ever wondered how to be dominant in bed when everything you were taught told you to be submissive? Here’s how I grew into my Femdom confidence—from awkward beginnings to commanding scenes—with practical tips for beginners.
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How you can have the kinky connections you desire
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So you think you might be kinky. Maybe you’ve been following me for a while, perhaps you’ve come across some spicy content or had an unexpected fantasy, or perhaps you’ve known for a long time, but now what? How to actually experience…
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Pegging; all its cracked up to be
Pegging is the act where a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. It is, in this case, important to highlight gender as it is a gendered act, and the absence of the top being a woman and the bottom being a man would change the labelling. Nearly 60% of men admit fantasising about…
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What even happens at sex parties??
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The not so secret world of sex clubs and parties can be quite intimidating to the average Joe, and our fears over what happens in there can stop us entering into and enjoying this world. So for the nervous and curious I’ve…
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Sub? Dom? Brat? Switch? What are all these roles in kink and where do you fit into them?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Are you a sub, Dom, Switch, Brat? If you’ve been following me a while or had any kind of introduction to kink, I’m sure you’ve heard some of these terms thrown around. If you’re wondering what all these roles are and if/where…
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How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Have a threesome? Be more kinky? Go to a sex party? Do anal? Have more sex? Consider non-monogamy? The age old question. You have a desire you want your partner to engage in and you don’t know how to get them to…
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The Truth.. A Fawn in a pit of Lions
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! After my first remembered experience of SA I tried to make that person fall in love with me for months. Read that again. I’m scared to share this, petrified even, given the response most women experience when sharing any experience of sexual…
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Backdoor Pleasure; the ins and outs of anal
‘he pulled out to go back in the front and we were both covered in poo’- the statement I saw on a mum forum that immediately inspired this blog post. Sometimes as a sex educator it can feel like im teaching people to suck eggs, that people might be frustrated by what might be deemed…
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Impact Play
The beautiful art of consensual impact play, where the thrill of giving or receiving can be incredibly exciting and stimulating. Impact play adds a new level of intensity, whether as part of a scene, discipline, or simply spicing up your intimate life. In this blog, we’ll explore why people choose to engage in impact play,…
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Adding a Unicorn; Our first experience of a three-way
According to the largest study on sexual fantasies by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, more than 95% of people have fantasized about group play or threesomes. Last week, my partner of 9 years and I had the chance to live out this fantasy on film for everyone to enjoy. In this blog, I’ll share my thoughts, feelings,…