Tag: pleasure
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Designing Desire: How to Create Powerful, Playful Scenes in Kink and BDSM
“Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”
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My Sex Positive Journey: 5 Years of Sexual Growth
“Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”
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5 Anal Sex Myths Busted: Pleasure, Safety & What You Need to Know
Curious about anal? We bust 5 common myths on pain, safety, porn, and pleasure — plus tips for exploring it confidently and comfortably.
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Pegging; all its cracked up to be
Pegging is the act where a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. It is, in this case, important to highlight gender as it is a gendered act, and the absence of the top being a woman and the bottom being a man would change the labelling. Nearly 60% of men admit fantasising about…
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How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Have a threesome? Be more kinky? Go to a sex party? Do anal? Have more sex? Consider non-monogamy? The age old question. You have a desire you want your partner to engage in and you don’t know how to get them to…
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Talk Dirty To Me: How sex can be transformed through words
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The mind is powerful and so too are words. Through language we can be transported to an entirely different world and studies show that so called ‘dirty talking’ can not only enhance sexual experiences but can be as powerful as physical stimulation…
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What Even is good Sex?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So many sex ‘experts’, courses, books and more offer the path to ‘mind blowing sex’. As a sex educator and person who is seen with a level of responsibility in the field, I have read countless books, watched countless shows and essentially…
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Backdoor Pleasure; the ins and outs of anal
‘he pulled out to go back in the front and we were both covered in poo’- the statement I saw on a mum forum that immediately inspired this blog post. Sometimes as a sex educator it can feel like im teaching people to suck eggs, that people might be frustrated by what might be deemed…
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Impact Play
The beautiful art of consensual impact play, where the thrill of giving or receiving can be incredibly exciting and stimulating. Impact play adds a new level of intensity, whether as part of a scene, discipline, or simply spicing up your intimate life. In this blog, we’ll explore why people choose to engage in impact play,…
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Adding a Unicorn; Our first experience of a three-way
According to the largest study on sexual fantasies by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, more than 95% of people have fantasized about group play or threesomes. Last week, my partner of 9 years and I had the chance to live out this fantasy on film for everyone to enjoy. In this blog, I’ll share my thoughts, feelings,…