Tag: intimacy

  • Designing Desire: How to Create Powerful, Playful Scenes in Kink and BDSM

    Designing Desire: How to Create Powerful, Playful Scenes in Kink and BDSM

    “Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”

  • My Sex Positive Journey: 5 Years of Sexual Growth

    My Sex Positive Journey: 5 Years of Sexual Growth

    “Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”

  • 5 Anal Sex Myths Busted: Pleasure, Safety & What You Need to Know

    5 Anal Sex Myths Busted: Pleasure, Safety & What You Need to Know

    Curious about anal? We bust 5 common myths on pain, safety, porn, and pleasure — plus tips for exploring it confidently and comfortably.

  • How you can have the kinky connections you desire

    How you can have the kinky connections you desire

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So you think you might be kinky. Maybe you’ve been following me for a while, perhaps you’ve come across some spicy content or had an unexpected fantasy, or perhaps you’ve known for a long time, but now what? How to actually experience…

  • Pegging; all its cracked up to be

    Pegging; all its cracked up to be

    Pegging is the act where a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. It is, in this case, important to highlight gender as it is a gendered act, and the absence of the top being a woman and the bottom being a man would change the labelling. Nearly 60% of men admit fantasising about…

  • What even happens at sex parties??

    What even happens at sex parties??

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The not so secret world of sex clubs and parties can be quite intimidating to the average Joe, and our fears over what happens in there can stop us entering into and enjoying this world. So for the nervous and curious I’ve…

  • Sub? Dom? Brat? Switch? What are all these roles in kink and where do you fit into them?

    Sub? Dom? Brat? Switch? What are all these roles in kink and where do you fit into them?

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Are you a sub, Dom, Switch, Brat? If you’ve been following me a while or had any kind of introduction to kink, I’m sure you’ve heard some of these terms thrown around. If you’re wondering what all these roles are and if/where…

  • How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’

    How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Have a threesome? Be more kinky? Go to a sex party? Do anal? Have more sex? Consider non-monogamy? The age old question. You have a desire you want your partner to engage in and you don’t know how to get them to…

  • Talk Dirty To Me: How sex can be transformed through words

    Talk Dirty To Me: How sex can be transformed through words

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The mind is powerful and so too are words. Through language we can be transported to an entirely different world and studies show that so called ‘dirty talking’ can not only enhance sexual experiences but can be as powerful as physical stimulation…

  • The Truth.. A Fawn in a pit of Lions

    The Truth.. A Fawn in a pit of Lions

    Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! After my first remembered experience of SA I tried to make that person fall in love with me for months. Read that again. I’m scared to share this, petrified even, given the response most women experience when sharing any experience of sexual…