Welcome to Bettersx.Blog — your go-to space for shame-free sex education, conscious kink exploration, and real talk on everything from pleasure and parenting to polyamory and power exchange. Whether you’re here to learn, unlearn, or light a fire under your sex life, you’ll find practical guidance, personal stories, and inclusive resources to support your journey. Not sure where to start? Dive into the blog, Learn the story behind Bettersx, See What’s on offer, explore events, or check out our most-loved posts below.
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Breaking Free: Overcoming Addiction and Finding Hope
Addiction is a shapeshifter. I thought I had control—until I didn’t. In this deeply personal piece, I share my journey through addiction, trauma, and finally choosing sobriety. From childhood struggles to substance use, to the clever ways addiction convinced me I was fine, this is the hardest truth I’ve ever told. If you’ve ever felt…
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5 Sex Toy Mistakes That Can Harm Your Health (And How to Avoid Them!)
Avoiding common sex toy mistakes is essential to protect your health and enhance your pleasure. Let’s talk about it. Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! I thought I’d taught my sister everything she needed to know about sex. Then, at 26 years old, she casually dropped this bombshell: 👉 She had…
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How you can have the kinky connections you desire
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! So you think you might be kinky. Maybe you’ve been following me for a while, perhaps you’ve come across some spicy content or had an unexpected fantasy, or perhaps you’ve known for a long time, but now what? How to actually experience…
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Pegging; all its cracked up to be
Pegging is the act where a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. It is, in this case, important to highlight gender as it is a gendered act, and the absence of the top being a woman and the bottom being a man would change the labelling. Nearly 60% of men admit fantasising about…
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What even happens at sex parties??
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The not so secret world of sex clubs and parties can be quite intimidating to the average Joe, and our fears over what happens in there can stop us entering into and enjoying this world. So for the nervous and curious I’ve…
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Sub? Dom? Brat? Switch? What are all these roles in kink and where do you fit into them?
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Are you a sub, Dom, Switch, Brat? If you’ve been following me a while or had any kind of introduction to kink, I’m sure you’ve heard some of these terms thrown around. If you’re wondering what all these roles are and if/where…
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How do I get my partner to ‘insert blank’
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Have a threesome? Be more kinky? Go to a sex party? Do anal? Have more sex? Consider non-monogamy? The age old question. You have a desire you want your partner to engage in and you don’t know how to get them to…
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Talk Dirty To Me: How sex can be transformed through words
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! The mind is powerful and so too are words. Through language we can be transported to an entirely different world and studies show that so called ‘dirty talking’ can not only enhance sexual experiences but can be as powerful as physical stimulation…
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The Truth.. A Fawn in a pit of Lions
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! After my first remembered experience of SA I tried to make that person fall in love with me for months. Read that again. I’m scared to share this, petrified even, given the response most women experience when sharing any experience of sexual…
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Ethical Non-Monogamy; Redefining the boundaries of Love and Relationships
Get better in bed! Subscribe to receive the weekly blog in your inbox! Ethical non monogamy or ENM appears to be a hot topic currently. With increasing coverage of the various forms and a strong devision of public opinion I thought it time to provide some information and answer the burning questions surrounding ENM; what…
