Welcome to Bettersx.Blog — your go-to space for shame-free sex education, conscious kink exploration, and real talk on everything from pleasure and parenting to polyamory and power exchange. Whether you’re here to learn, unlearn, or light a fire under your sex life, you’ll find practical guidance, personal stories, and inclusive resources to support your journey. Not sure where to start? Dive into the blog, Learn the story behind Bettersx, See What’s on offer, explore events, or check out our most-loved posts below.

  • No it doesn’t matter that you can’t last very long… but here’s what you can do about it

    No it doesn’t matter that you can’t last very long… but here’s what you can do about it

    Since launching the better sex blog and putting myself out there as a sex educator and life coach the single most common question i’ve been asked is men asking how they can last longer. There are methods and we will get to them but I first want you to learn that penis in vagina really…

  • ADHD and Kink; how BDSM saves me

    ADHD and Kink; how BDSM saves me

    I’m pretty sure BDSM has saved my life. A heavy statement I know but not an overreaction. If you have or know someone with ADHD you will know it is not the fun trend that everyone on TikTok seems to think it is. It is sometimes completely overwhelming and crippling. Difficulty focusing doesn’t seem to…

  • Top 5 sx toys that will upgrade your sx life: from a sx educator and spicy creator

    Top 5 sx toys that will upgrade your sx life: from a sx educator and spicy creator

    Toys, toys, toys! They’re the secret ingredient to a happy sex life. No, we’re not talking about your favorite childhood playthings, we’re talking about adult toys that are guaranteed to take your sex life to the next level. And the best part? We’re breaking down the stigma around them and showing you how they can…

  • A Game of Clits: Unveiling the Powerhouse of pleasure

    A Game of Clits: Unveiling the Powerhouse of pleasure

    Ready to dive into the mysterious world of the clitoris? Forget those TikTok jokes about clueless guys missing the magic button—let’s uncover the truth about clitoral stimulation and sexual wellness! Did you know that less than 30% of vulva owners can climax through penetration alone? It’s no surprise when this incredible pleasure powerhouse, the clitoris,…

Alice Lovegood

A Sex Educator, life coach and spicy content creator, Alice wants to open up the conversation around sex and intimacy and help you feel at home in your body, celebrated and valued exactly as you are.