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Welcome to Bettersx.Blog — your go-to space for shame-free sex education, conscious kink exploration, and real talk on everything from pleasure and parenting to polyamory and power exchange. Whether you’re here to learn, unlearn, or light a fire under your sex life, you’ll find practical guidance, personal stories, and inclusive resources to support your journey. Not sure where to start? Dive into the blog, Learn the story behind Bettersx, See What’s on offer, explore events, or check out our most-loved posts below.
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I Need Your Help
For the second time in 2 weeks, I opened the Instagram app to a page that caused me to drop my phone and scream. The first time with devastation, the second time with anger. And sure, it might sound dramatic, because it was. It felt like I’d woken up ready to start another work day…
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Confused About Boundaries in Non-Monogamy? Here’s What Actually Works
n my non-monogamous journey, so many of my pain points have come from not fully understanding boundaries. Is this a fair ask? How can I protect myself without controlling others? Why do I feel so much fear, and how can I manage that? Let’s break down what healthy boundaries really are (and aren’t), so you…
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The Truth About Squirting: Science, Pleasure & Messy Myths
Curious about squirting? Break free from shame and explore the truth, science, and pleasure behind this misunderstood part of sex.
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Ethical Unicorn Hunting: Is it possible?
On this weeks ‘Ask Alice’ a couple asked, “Why can’t we find a female third?”. It inspired me to write this blog exploring unicorn hunting, its ethical pitfalls, and when (if ever) it might actually work.
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Designing Desire: How to Create Powerful, Playful Scenes in Kink and BDSM
“Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”
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My Sex Positive Journey: 5 Years of Sexual Growth
“Five years ago, I didn’t own lingerie or know what I liked in bed. Now? I’m a sex educator with a toy collection, a sex room, and a deep connection to my pleasure. This is the real story of my sex positive journey—and how learning to love sex changed everything.”
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5 Anal Sex Myths Busted: Pleasure, Safety & What You Need to Know
Curious about anal? We bust 5 common myths on pain, safety, porn, and pleasure — plus tips for exploring it confidently and comfortably.
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How to Be Dominant in Bed: Finding My Femdom Confidence After Being Taught to Submit
Ever wondered how to be dominant in bed when everything you were taught told you to be submissive? Here’s how I grew into my Femdom confidence—from awkward beginnings to commanding scenes—with practical tips for beginners.
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Trans Women Are Women: Why the UK Supreme Court’s Ruling Should Terrify Us — and What You Can Do About It
The UK Supreme Court ruled trans women are not legally recognised as women under the Equality Act. Here’s why that matters, what it means for all of us, and how you can support trans rights now.
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SW makes me 30k a month – but I’d still do it if money didn’t exist
Why sw is at its core a feminist act, and how even if I didn’t earn a penny I would still choose sw.
